|
It is with deep sadness and sense of loss that I recently
learned of Richard Grayson's death. It was not that his passing
was untimely. He lived a long and fruitful life. He had
patiently endured frail health for many years. Despite that and
the toll we all pay for aging, he always countenanced a joie de
vivre, a lust for life and the life lived in the theatre
community especially that allowed me and many others to become
very fond of his presence in one's own life. With his
characteristically rich actor's voice he was always opinionated,
almost to a fault, and he always had a point to make, always
with a smile. You learned to love that about him.
Over many years he served ATPAM in many capacities. He always
firmly believed and acted upon his personal and professional
commitment to the trade union movement and ATPAM. More
specifically, when I served ATPAM as National Organizer, he was
always there to serve his ATPAM brothers and sisters in and
extended that to the rest of the theatre community when needed.
He was a regular and steadfast presence on every ATPAM picket
line. He proudly marched in the annual Labor Day parade. You'd
find him demonstrating with AGMA, SSDC, Equity, Local 802, AFTRA/SAG,
IATSE. You'd find him with a picket sign at the Selwyn or New
Victory Theatre, at the Wang Center in Boston. One extremely
frigid, blustery and snowy winter night he got off a bus in
Boston to help me leaflet the audience before a Boston Ballet
performance, bought me a cup of coffee, got back on another bus
and headed home that same evening.
In later years we would occasionally dine together or I would
prepare him a home cooked meal at our apartment and we would
reminisce. When I was with AGMA, leading a strike on a non-union
performance of a Handel choral symphony he bumped into me while
heading into the performance space with ticket in hand. When I
explained to him what was going on he tore up his ticket in
indignation and joined the AGMA picket line.
It was not unusual for me to bump into Dick at the theatre. He
loved the classics and I would see him regularly at Aquilia
Theatre and Classic Stage Company performances. At one point he
informed me he had signed up for a class in ancient Greek
tragedy with Professor Peter Meinick of NYU. Meinick, who is
also the Artistic Director for Aquilia was in AGMA contract
negotiations with me. When I inquired if Dick was in his class
he said "oh boy, he sure is!". Dick was always energetically
inquiring, always wanting to learn more.
The last time I saw Dick Grayson was at a Broadway performance
of O'Neil's Long Days Journey Into Night. He was gleeful,
excited, energetic and affectionately overjoyed at seeing me and
my partner Shelley. He wanted very much to take us out for a
drink after the performance. Regrettably I declined; too tired
from working countless 14 hour days on an AFT organizing
campaign. It was evident he was disappointed. Now I have learned
too late to be most careful in declining such invitations, such
important opportunities to spend some precious time with a good
friend. Richard Grayson has enriched my life immeasurably. Now
he is gone and is sorely missed.
Sincerely & In Solidarity,
Gene Vanasse |